Trust love

Don’t lose your faith from love just because you are being cheated by anyone or ditched by anyone, and even if your love is rejected. Love should be never on the basis of getting love in return; it’s something like loving yourself. Many people believe start believing that they don’t deserve love or they are not destined and many more assumptions. Falling in love is never on the condition of getting love in return. Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that the person will love you back, don’t expect love in return. Just wait for it to grow in the person’s heart, but if it does not grow be sure it grew in yours. Why it is that people always blame the other for not accepting their love? Why is it they think that they are not destined to love? Why they think that it is the end of the world? I know may be a person who experiences it knows the pain of it.

Guys may be your love became a failure once, twice but it won’t be the case always. Everyone is destined to love; you just have to wait for that right person. Failures in love should not lead to a stage where everything seems fake and you consider yourself as being cheated. Does the person you loved is the only one in your life; of course not life gives you many beautiful relations and reasons to stay happy. Love is not a fake feeling; it is something very pure and intellectual.

“Life moves on” and time never waits for anyone. Someone somewhere is destined to love you and to be with you. Till that enjoy whatever you have in life and hope for the best, the best will definitely come your way.

Few Questions to be asked to yourself

Secret of a better relationship lies in better understanding, better communication and maturity in that relationship. Have you ever thought why relationship comes to an extent where everything seems senseless in the relation? Why a stage occurs where one wishes to be alone rather than carrying such relation. Everyone facing this situation rather blame the other or destiny. Why self analysis can’t be made in this case. The fact is in case of any dispute or quarrel in relation while making self assessment we think we are right because we never intended to do anything wrong, our intention was good but while judging the other in the relation we judge the action not the intention.
Why we say ‘u r wrong’? Why it can’t be like, ‘I accept, I was wrong’? Is it that difficult or is it that big thing that you can even sacrifice a relation on it. Why personal egos can’t be kept aside to save the relation. Have you thought of this entire, if not than think and accept if you are wrong at any part. It’s easy to say that I did everything and gave my best and difficult to accept that something was missing from your side too. Incompleteness can be fulfilled by either of the one, if one seriously wishes to. Before blaming each other just make an analysis if the matter is worth arguing for, just give few minutes to the thought of value of the person you are arguing with. You will definitely end up thinking of leaving the matter and carrying on.Some beautiful moments of life are being wasted by many individuals in arguing, in pointing out each other and in blaming each other. Just think once those moments could have been fulfilled with beautiful memories rather than bitter words and thoughts between the people involved in.

love

Love - many people say it’s a beautiful feeling; you actually start living when you are in love. Don’t know how to define love? One thing I know is just that it’s a pure bond between two hearts. Today people have changed the meaning of love, for them infatuation becomes love, friendship becomes love and in immaturity they get involve in the relation. Everything than seems wonderful to them, every song they hear they began thinking that it suits them, every love story they read or see, they imagine themselves in it. Well sounds kiddish but it actually happens just see within, if you have ever imagined yourself doing it. Even the school children now believe that they are in love, though they don’t know what exactly it is.
As per me love is spiritual and no infatuation is involved in it. If you love someone you don’t need reason for loving him/her. It is when you feel from within that you like the person, it is when in spite of talking to many you just have that person in mind, it’s when everything just seem unimportant when the person is with you. Guys love is different from infatuation, it don’t require any catchy physical appearance. It’s a feeling of from a heart to a heart.
If you love someone just express it, before it’s too late. Expressing the love is necessary so what if your love is not acceptable at least you won’t regret that you didn’t expressed it. And in case the answer is no, than just remember someone has wisely said ‘life moves on’. Don’t make it a compulsion that you get love in return, if you didn’t have what you wished it surely means that you are destined for something good.
Expressing does not mean that express your feelings to every other guy/girl. Obviously Maturity is required to understand what actually love is, what you really feel and keeping patience and waiting for destiny in case of love is best option for everyone. If you fail in love it never means that you won’t be loved ever, it just a sign for you to ‘wait’. Don’t make your love a necessity for you; just remember love is something in life but surely not everything in life.
If you ever faced rejection in love and not able to over come it, just try to concentrate on other things. Spend time with your friends; make it a habit to develop an interest in the world because failing in love is surely not the end of the world. Mostly people just keep remembering the rejection in love and forget the things they can enjoy, it should not be the case, just keep moving in life. It is acceptable that it’s not easy to forget love well it’s not difficult either.
If you love someone just start living, you are confirm destined to be loved by someone in your life.

Binding

Bounding any one in any relation is not good as it will just spoil the relation. What kind of bounds people involve in any relation can be specified as sharing every feeling, every thought. Expecting to know everything regarding each other and expecting priority and preference. Why this bounding is necessary when the person in relation is important for you. What exactly should matter is the person and the relation, there should not be involvement of any kind of bounding. It’s obvious to expect sharing of feelings, thoughts and the thing that is distracting any individual but if the person is not comfortable in telling or sharing, the other should wait till the one is comfortable. Many times people need space to overcome something, some time they need time for themselves and in that time if any one interferes they get irritated and frustrated it’s again obvious. These things should not be the reason of disputes and arguments. So what if the one is not comfortable in sharing all the things, why should be there any bounding to share. If the person will wish he/she will share, u can’t force anyone to share.
Don’t try to bind anyone with the rules and regulations you think is important in relation. A relation is beyond the bindings, what matters in any relation is the person and your feelings for the person not the percentage of thoughts you share with each other. On the contrary if you are into any relation consider the other as your friend why should be there any feeling like he/she won’t understand, at least try once to express yourself. If you can’t be open to the ones you love than you can’t have the courage to express yourself in front of anyone. Who knows your loved ones can help you in overcoming different situations and you carry the thing in much better after sharing.Guys there should not be any compulsion of sharing but yes a feeling from within to share. Bounding can just create distances as no one like to be in bindings..Give importance to the person and the relation not the imperfections

Expectations

Expectations occurs in any relation that’s obvious and natural, one who says that he/she never expects is surely not telling the truth as expecting is human nature. Expectations are not unending; it’s on individual not to let it levy on any relation one possesses. When these expectations are not fulfilled it creates distances, misunderstandings in relation. It is very difficult for anyone to avoid expectation in relation but it surely is possible to give less importance to such expectations. It requires maturity and patience to understand the fact that it is not expectation that create a relation but it is the feeling that creates relation. It is love, care, understanding, patience that is important not the fulfillment of expectations. What generally happens is people with a big heart say that they don’t expect anything from the relation but somewhere they relate things with expectation and in the end get frustrated. Expectation of one surely affects the other as sometimes he/she is bound to do things which he/she never wished to but doing it just to save the relation. This can be a sacrifice, compromise by one by the other but these sacrifices and compromises have some limit and when things cross these limits the result is surely bad for the relation.
It is easy to blame one another for expecting, but the fact is everyone expects. The difference occurs in understanding the expectation whether it is right or wrong. Sometimes making a compulsion to do anything is wrong, it is wrong expectation. Many times communication is required to clear things it is expected right.
Expectations and bounds in any relation can never strengthen any relation it can just create a base for a bad ending. So guys never let these expectations levy on any relation of yours.“Bind a relation with love, care, understanding, patience not with expectations.”

Relationships

Relationships are easy to gain and difficult to maintain that’s what I believe in. Treasure every relation you possess, never loose it. Many times a relationship comes to an end due to misunderstandings in that relation, sometimes immaturity is the reason and at times personal egos clash. Misunderstandings, Immaturity, lack of patience, egos can just destroy a relation. Other major reason for an ending of any relation is expectations. This expectations levy on every relation, everyone involved in the relation expects and it is obvious but one should not allow the expectation to affect the relation. This never happens everyone just expects and ends up in frustration and blaming the other for not fulfilling the things desired. Expectations of individuals levy on one another and than the sessions of blames starts which end up in pointing out one another. Often people don’t communicate with each other in any kind of disputes just because of the personal egos, and the relation comes to an end without any communication and without any possibility of second life to it.
Every relation requires better and open communication to avoid misunderstanding. One among the two has to behave maturely to save the relation. People often remember the pains and hurts in the relation, they never realize that, the relation also possessed some good times, some happy moments which all are considered negligible during any kind of misunderstandings and grudges.
If any of your relation is at the stage of ending up just give a second thought for bringing it back to life again. Relations are not easily carried. Please communicate with each other before ending up, don’t loose the relations because of egos, misunderstanding, silence or anything. Don’t let anything spoil your relation.