Few Questions to be asked to yourself

Secret of a better relationship lies in better understanding, better communication and maturity in that relationship. Have you ever thought why relationship comes to an extent where everything seems senseless in the relation? Why a stage occurs where one wishes to be alone rather than carrying such relation. Everyone facing this situation rather blame the other or destiny. Why self analysis can’t be made in this case. The fact is in case of any dispute or quarrel in relation while making self assessment we think we are right because we never intended to do anything wrong, our intention was good but while judging the other in the relation we judge the action not the intention.
Why we say ‘u r wrong’? Why it can’t be like, ‘I accept, I was wrong’? Is it that difficult or is it that big thing that you can even sacrifice a relation on it. Why personal egos can’t be kept aside to save the relation. Have you thought of this entire, if not than think and accept if you are wrong at any part. It’s easy to say that I did everything and gave my best and difficult to accept that something was missing from your side too. Incompleteness can be fulfilled by either of the one, if one seriously wishes to. Before blaming each other just make an analysis if the matter is worth arguing for, just give few minutes to the thought of value of the person you are arguing with. You will definitely end up thinking of leaving the matter and carrying on.Some beautiful moments of life are being wasted by many individuals in arguing, in pointing out each other and in blaming each other. Just think once those moments could have been fulfilled with beautiful memories rather than bitter words and thoughts between the people involved in.