love

Love - many people say it’s a beautiful feeling; you actually start living when you are in love. Don’t know how to define love? One thing I know is just that it’s a pure bond between two hearts. Today people have changed the meaning of love, for them infatuation becomes love, friendship becomes love and in immaturity they get involve in the relation. Everything than seems wonderful to them, every song they hear they began thinking that it suits them, every love story they read or see, they imagine themselves in it. Well sounds kiddish but it actually happens just see within, if you have ever imagined yourself doing it. Even the school children now believe that they are in love, though they don’t know what exactly it is.
As per me love is spiritual and no infatuation is involved in it. If you love someone you don’t need reason for loving him/her. It is when you feel from within that you like the person, it is when in spite of talking to many you just have that person in mind, it’s when everything just seem unimportant when the person is with you. Guys love is different from infatuation, it don’t require any catchy physical appearance. It’s a feeling of from a heart to a heart.
If you love someone just express it, before it’s too late. Expressing the love is necessary so what if your love is not acceptable at least you won’t regret that you didn’t expressed it. And in case the answer is no, than just remember someone has wisely said ‘life moves on’. Don’t make it a compulsion that you get love in return, if you didn’t have what you wished it surely means that you are destined for something good.
Expressing does not mean that express your feelings to every other guy/girl. Obviously Maturity is required to understand what actually love is, what you really feel and keeping patience and waiting for destiny in case of love is best option for everyone. If you fail in love it never means that you won’t be loved ever, it just a sign for you to ‘wait’. Don’t make your love a necessity for you; just remember love is something in life but surely not everything in life.
If you ever faced rejection in love and not able to over come it, just try to concentrate on other things. Spend time with your friends; make it a habit to develop an interest in the world because failing in love is surely not the end of the world. Mostly people just keep remembering the rejection in love and forget the things they can enjoy, it should not be the case, just keep moving in life. It is acceptable that it’s not easy to forget love well it’s not difficult either.
If you love someone just start living, you are confirm destined to be loved by someone in your life.

Binding

Bounding any one in any relation is not good as it will just spoil the relation. What kind of bounds people involve in any relation can be specified as sharing every feeling, every thought. Expecting to know everything regarding each other and expecting priority and preference. Why this bounding is necessary when the person in relation is important for you. What exactly should matter is the person and the relation, there should not be involvement of any kind of bounding. It’s obvious to expect sharing of feelings, thoughts and the thing that is distracting any individual but if the person is not comfortable in telling or sharing, the other should wait till the one is comfortable. Many times people need space to overcome something, some time they need time for themselves and in that time if any one interferes they get irritated and frustrated it’s again obvious. These things should not be the reason of disputes and arguments. So what if the one is not comfortable in sharing all the things, why should be there any bounding to share. If the person will wish he/she will share, u can’t force anyone to share.
Don’t try to bind anyone with the rules and regulations you think is important in relation. A relation is beyond the bindings, what matters in any relation is the person and your feelings for the person not the percentage of thoughts you share with each other. On the contrary if you are into any relation consider the other as your friend why should be there any feeling like he/she won’t understand, at least try once to express yourself. If you can’t be open to the ones you love than you can’t have the courage to express yourself in front of anyone. Who knows your loved ones can help you in overcoming different situations and you carry the thing in much better after sharing.Guys there should not be any compulsion of sharing but yes a feeling from within to share. Bounding can just create distances as no one like to be in bindings..Give importance to the person and the relation not the imperfections

Expectations

Expectations occurs in any relation that’s obvious and natural, one who says that he/she never expects is surely not telling the truth as expecting is human nature. Expectations are not unending; it’s on individual not to let it levy on any relation one possesses. When these expectations are not fulfilled it creates distances, misunderstandings in relation. It is very difficult for anyone to avoid expectation in relation but it surely is possible to give less importance to such expectations. It requires maturity and patience to understand the fact that it is not expectation that create a relation but it is the feeling that creates relation. It is love, care, understanding, patience that is important not the fulfillment of expectations. What generally happens is people with a big heart say that they don’t expect anything from the relation but somewhere they relate things with expectation and in the end get frustrated. Expectation of one surely affects the other as sometimes he/she is bound to do things which he/she never wished to but doing it just to save the relation. This can be a sacrifice, compromise by one by the other but these sacrifices and compromises have some limit and when things cross these limits the result is surely bad for the relation.
It is easy to blame one another for expecting, but the fact is everyone expects. The difference occurs in understanding the expectation whether it is right or wrong. Sometimes making a compulsion to do anything is wrong, it is wrong expectation. Many times communication is required to clear things it is expected right.
Expectations and bounds in any relation can never strengthen any relation it can just create a base for a bad ending. So guys never let these expectations levy on any relation of yours.“Bind a relation with love, care, understanding, patience not with expectations.”

Relationships

Relationships are easy to gain and difficult to maintain that’s what I believe in. Treasure every relation you possess, never loose it. Many times a relationship comes to an end due to misunderstandings in that relation, sometimes immaturity is the reason and at times personal egos clash. Misunderstandings, Immaturity, lack of patience, egos can just destroy a relation. Other major reason for an ending of any relation is expectations. This expectations levy on every relation, everyone involved in the relation expects and it is obvious but one should not allow the expectation to affect the relation. This never happens everyone just expects and ends up in frustration and blaming the other for not fulfilling the things desired. Expectations of individuals levy on one another and than the sessions of blames starts which end up in pointing out one another. Often people don’t communicate with each other in any kind of disputes just because of the personal egos, and the relation comes to an end without any communication and without any possibility of second life to it.
Every relation requires better and open communication to avoid misunderstanding. One among the two has to behave maturely to save the relation. People often remember the pains and hurts in the relation, they never realize that, the relation also possessed some good times, some happy moments which all are considered negligible during any kind of misunderstandings and grudges.
If any of your relation is at the stage of ending up just give a second thought for bringing it back to life again. Relations are not easily carried. Please communicate with each other before ending up, don’t loose the relations because of egos, misunderstanding, silence or anything. Don’t let anything spoil your relation.