Expectations

Expectations occurs in any relation that’s obvious and natural, one who says that he/she never expects is surely not telling the truth as expecting is human nature. Expectations are not unending; it’s on individual not to let it levy on any relation one possesses. When these expectations are not fulfilled it creates distances, misunderstandings in relation. It is very difficult for anyone to avoid expectation in relation but it surely is possible to give less importance to such expectations. It requires maturity and patience to understand the fact that it is not expectation that create a relation but it is the feeling that creates relation. It is love, care, understanding, patience that is important not the fulfillment of expectations. What generally happens is people with a big heart say that they don’t expect anything from the relation but somewhere they relate things with expectation and in the end get frustrated. Expectation of one surely affects the other as sometimes he/she is bound to do things which he/she never wished to but doing it just to save the relation. This can be a sacrifice, compromise by one by the other but these sacrifices and compromises have some limit and when things cross these limits the result is surely bad for the relation.
It is easy to blame one another for expecting, but the fact is everyone expects. The difference occurs in understanding the expectation whether it is right or wrong. Sometimes making a compulsion to do anything is wrong, it is wrong expectation. Many times communication is required to clear things it is expected right.
Expectations and bounds in any relation can never strengthen any relation it can just create a base for a bad ending. So guys never let these expectations levy on any relation of yours.“Bind a relation with love, care, understanding, patience not with expectations.”